#237 Read With Me: I Who Have Never Known Men by Jacqueline Harpman

In this first “Read With Me” episode, I’m sharing reflections on I Who Have Never Known Men by Jacqueline Harpman, a haunting, deeply philosophical dystopian novel that unexpectedly became one of the most meaningful books I’ve read recently.

I read this during the winter solstice season on the Isle of Lewis, and despite rarely reading dystopian fiction, I found myself profoundly moved by the novel’s exploration of uncertainty, loneliness, curiosity, resilience, and human connection.

In this episode, I explore:

  • reading as a nervous system experience
  • suspense and anxiety in fiction
  • existential literature in approachable ways
  • how imagining “the worst case scenario” can sometimes reduce fear
  • the resilience of ritual, companionship, and curiosity

Here is the link to the free Creative Grief Club, which includes monthly Zoom sessions and the book group on Fable: ⁠https://griefmagic.com/free/⁠

Thanks for listening!

Love,

Yarrow

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The Creative Grief Club is a free, gentle space for people who are learning to live beautifully alongside loss. Join us for monthly Spark Sessions on Zoom, a slow book club on the Fable app, seasonal reflections, and a newsletter sent with love. No pressure, no performance. Just quiet companionship and a place to come back to.

Hi, I’m Yarrow

I’m a writer, grief companion and tarot reader living on the East coast of Scotland. 

I facilitate creative projects and gentle rituals for seasons of loss, make handmade textile magic and host the Grief Glimmers podcast. My wish is to change the culture around grief and death so that we can explore these experiences as gateways into a softer, more embodied life.