In this first “Read With Me” episode, I’m sharing reflections on I Who Have Never Known Men by Jacqueline Harpman, a haunting, deeply philosophical dystopian novel that unexpectedly became one of the most meaningful books I’ve read recently.
I read this during the winter solstice season on the Isle of Lewis, and despite rarely reading dystopian fiction, I found myself profoundly moved by the novel’s exploration of uncertainty, loneliness, curiosity, resilience, and human connection.
In this episode, I explore:
- reading as a nervous system experience
- suspense and anxiety in fiction
- existential literature in approachable ways
- how imagining “the worst case scenario” can sometimes reduce fear
- the resilience of ritual, companionship, and curiosity
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Thanks for listening!
Love,
Yarrow
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